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Confession: I Talk to Myself A LOT to Stay on Track

Do you engage in a lot of internal self-talk? I often think that if people could monitor my inner dialogue they would probably lock me up and throw away the key!

I talk to myself A LOT.

Please, tell me I’m not alone here!

Woman Talking to Self in Mirror
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I’m pretty sure that I’m not alone when it comes to the challenges of inner chatter (Do you remember the television show Herman’s Head? There’s a video clip at the bottom of the post if you’re curious.) but am always comforted to learn that I’m not as crazy as I sometimes feel.

As we all know, the wrong kind of self-talk, where you are constantly beating yourself up, can can be debilitating. But I believe that the right kind of self-talk can be very helpful

Mature woman gray hair wearing striped shirt and loose pants standing on a yoga mat in Tree Pose

Yoga introduced me to the concept of mantras, words or phrases that you can use to keep your thoughts from spinning out of control and that can be used to pull you back into the here and now. You will often find me saying, “This too shall pass” or reciting the serenity prayer.

I’m also a big fan of affirmations for weight loss (affiliate link). For decades I wrote and repeated, “I’m easily and effortlessly maintaining my ideal weight”, until one day it dawned on me that it had become my new reality!

Related Content: My Favorite Affirmations for Lasting Weight Loss Success

How Weight Watchers Can Use Positive Self Talk to Stay on Track

Positive self-talk can be a powerful tool for Weight Watchers to stay on track and maintain motivation. Here are some strategies Weight Watchers can use to incorporate positive self-talk into their journey:

  1. Practice Self-Compassion: Instead of being harsh or critical of yourself when faced with challenges or setbacks, cultivate self-compassion. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would a close friend. Remind yourself that setbacks are a normal part of the process and that you have the resilience to keep going. (Why Self Love, Kindness and Compassion are Necessary for Weight Loss Success)
  2. Use Affirmations: Create positive affirmations related to your weight loss goals and repeat them regularly. These affirmations can be simple statements like “I am capable of reaching my weight loss goals” or “I am making progress every day.” Repeat them to yourself in moments of doubt or when you need a boost of motivation. (My Favorite Weight Loss Affirmations)
  3. Focus on Non-Scale Victories: Instead of solely relying on the number on the scale, celebrate non-scale victories. Acknowledge and celebrate other positive changes such as increased energy levels, improved fitness, better sleep, or feeling more confident in your clothes. Remind yourself of these achievements to stay motivated and reinforce your progress.
  4. Challenge Negative Thoughts: When negative thoughts or self-doubt arise, challenge them with positive and realistic counter-statements. For example, if you catch yourself thinking, “I’ll never reach my goal weight,” reframe it to something like, “I am taking steps towards my goal, and every effort counts.” By reframing negative thoughts, you can maintain a positive mindset and stay focused on your progress. (7 Steps to a Winning Weight Loss Mindset)
  5. Visualize Success: Use the power of visualization to imagine yourself achieving your weight loss goals. Create a vivid mental image of how you will feel, look, and live once you’ve reached your desired weight. Visualize yourself making healthy choices, being active, and enjoying a fulfilling lifestyle. This visualization can help reinforce your determination and keep you motivated on your weight loss journey.
  6. Surround Yourself with Supportive People: Seek out a supportive community or enlist the help of friends and family who can provide encouragement and positive reinforcement. Share your goals and progress with them, and allow their support to uplift you during challenging times. Having a strong support system can significantly impact your self-talk and help you stay on track. (Discover the Magic of Weight Loss Support for Lasting Success)

Remember, positive self-talk is a skill that takes practice. Be patient with yourself as you develop this habit and make it a regular part of your weight loss journey. By cultivating positive self-talk, you can boost your confidence, stay motivated, and maintain a healthy mindset throughout your weight loss process.

Self Talk I Engage In To Keep Me On Track 

As a person with a long history of eating too much to cope with anxiety and comfort herself, I still find it helpful to engage in self-talk when presented with eating challenges.  Here are some of the things that I often say to myself to keep me on track:

  • “Are you still hungry?”
  • “Are you full?”
  • “Have you had enough?”
  • “Step away from the refrigerator right now.”
  • “Put the cookie down.”
  • “How will you feel after you eat this?”
  • “If you are going to eat, put it on a plate and take a seat.”
  • “This isn’t your last meal; You’ll eat again soon.”
  • “It’s okay to feel a little hungry.”
  • “You can eat again as soon as you’re hungry.”
  • “You can have ice cream after dinner if you still want it.”
  • “Is that what you really want?”
  • “Is that what you really need?”
  • “Are you hungry or just bored?”
  • “Does that taste good?”
  • “Is this worth the calories?”
  • “Slow down, breathe, and chew.”
  • “You deserve delicious, high quality food.”
  • “Remember to put down your fork between bites.”
  • “Nothing tastes as good as being slim feels.”
  • “The first taste is the best.”
  • “Is this the best choice for you right now?”
  • “What would be a better choice?”
  • “Trust yourself.”
  • “One bite tastes just like the rest.”
  • “You can have whatever you want, just not all today.”
  • “Tomorrow is another day.”
  • “Slow down and savor it.”
  • “If it doesn’t taste good, don’t eat it.”
  • “Remember to stop when you’re no longer hungry.”
  • “It’s okay to throw it away.”
  • “Order the small size.”
  • “You deserve to enjoy your food.”
  • “Make every bite count.”
  • “You can have the ________now if you’re willing to skip __________later.”

So, there you have it. A peak inside my head, into the thoughts that help me stay in balance. I hope it hasn’t scared you!

What kinds of things do you say to yourself to help you stick with your goals?

Here’s a fun introduction video to the chaotic, crowded world of Herman’s Head:

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About Martha McKinnon

Weight Watchers Lifetime Member, Yoga Practitioner and Blogger who loves to share her passion for trying to create a happy, healthy, balanced life in what often feels like an overwhelming out of control world.

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6 Comments

  1. As a great granny in my seventies, I have been putting self talk down to my age ! Great to hear I am not alone ! I live in New Zealand in the Southern Hemisphere and it is Winter here now so your slow cooker recipes are very welcome. A favourite W.W mantra of mine is”don’t give up what you want most for what you want now.”

    1. Hi Peggy, self talk keeps me sane! Glad to connect with another who finds it helpful. Love your mantra of not giving up what you most for what you want know. So very true.

  2. No, you are def not alone! I talk to myself a lot as well. I don’t just internalize it and talk out loud from time to time. This freaks out my husband. “This isn’t your last meal. You’ll eat again soon” really resonates with me. There was a time when I struggled w/body issues and went through the vicious cycle of starving and bingeing…eating for hours on end. If only I had meditated on these words back then.

    Lately, I’ve been telling myself “live by faith, not by sight.”

    1. I like that, “Live by faith, not by sight.” I’m going to add it to my list of motivational/inspirational quotes. Thanks!